In our modern world, waving goodbye to traditional stag and stagette parties has become the norm itself. Traditionally, brides have bridesmaids, and grooms have groomsmen. But hey, it’s 2024, and we’re flipping the script. Your wedding, your rules. When it comes to choosing your wedding party, we see all genders participating including bridesmen, groomladies and more! Enter the world of gender-neutral wedding parties, where you call the shots! While tradition may tug at your sleeve, creating gender-neutral stag and stagette parties can be a bit of a puzzle. Here are some tips to help you navigate this exciting and inclusive path.

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Color Scheme
Ditch the traditional dress codes and opt for a color scheme that allows all your guests to dress as they please. This not only reduces stress but also lets everyone express themselves without disrupting the wedding aesthetic. Picture matching ensembles with a hint of personal flair – different ties, unique boutonnieres. It’s not uncommon for a woman to rock a tuxedo that complements the man’s attire. Embrace the fun in letting your friends showcase their style while still harmonizing with the overall party look.
Hit Up an Amusement Park
Why settle for a run-of-the-mill bachelor or bachelorette party when you can dive into the thrill of an amusement park? With rides, games, and all the deep-fried delights you can imagine, it’s a one-stop-shop for joint celebrations. Whether it’s part of a road trip or a local adventure, let your inner child roam free while celebrating the coolest couple in town.
Yacht Party
When in doubt, add water! Elevate the celebration by chartering a yacht or boat for a nautical escapade with your squad. Sail the seas or cruise a serene lake – the choice is yours. Whether it’s an intimate gathering with your besties or a full-blown floating festival, like Yacht Week, Catalina Island, or Lake Havasu, a yacht party is sure to make waves.

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Attend a Festival
For an unforgettable sten (stags and hens) party experience, head to a festival. Book some glamping tents to elevate the occasion, ensuring you have more time for drinks and better facilities. Spend the weekend dancing, laughing, and enjoying the festival vibes with your besties. The beauty of festivals lies in their diversity, allowing everyone to split up and reunite later, ensuring everyone gets to revel in what they love most.